Friday, 12 December 2008

Talking about rubbish heaps

Friday morning a good start, Summer stops monday and Thursday nights last night she was quite awkward for a four year old, and for once I was pleased at 8; 30 after 9 stories she finally nodded off. This morning she was in a better mood with her nanny and after Fi Fi the Flower tot had finished she had breakfast and was ready for school bless her baby heart .
Collecting her at 3; 15 so I hope her good mood as lasted all day. The older granddaughter however as to no surprise to me or anyone that knows her that she as been a pain all day and her mother as received a phone call the fifth one this week.
She called round we had a chat or as she calls it a lecture but it falls on deaf ears, will she grow out of this I wonder no I more than wonder I hope for her sake she dose.
Making a steak and kidney pie for tea, it smells good.
I have found in the past year the trouble we have had with my granddaughter and what my daughter as been through with the permanent exclusion and 2 appeals my daughter as been through all without help. Why is that you may ask? because there is no help they label such children as rubbish kids and dump them where they can? The only thing we have had for help is the computer and bits of information we have gathered of different sites. Not one person steps forward not doctor teacher or child adviser not one shows any offer of help in anyway, all that my granddaughter and her mother have are a dam good family that pitches in where they can. This make me worry for kids that don't have a good family or mothers weaker than my daughter how the hell to they get through such things. Rubbish kid rubbish heap, days off school when OFSTED comes the school hides there rubbish. People say where do all the kids on drugs and kids living on the street come from. They come off the rubbish heap that there parents had fought like hell to keep them off but everyone else's as pushed them to it.
I didn't mean to moan sometimes i feel so cross but i don't no the answer all i no is i love my grandaughter and she may be rubbish to them but she is the world to me.

1 comment:

John E White said...

Kids, eh, Sal? I hope she finds some positive official help to support her as an addition to what the family already does.